Thursday, April 21, 2011

Fairy Tale Endings Change As We Do

I just wanted to talk a bit more on the topic of fairy tales and how all girls have them they just change and adapt as we do as we grow. I don't want to say that boys have fairy tales too because I don't know so they may as well go through what we do but they may not so I will write this from my aspect of once being that little girl with the dream of the fairy tale wedding and love and how over time the fairy tale has changed as I grew as a women. I believe that this happens to most girls just as I think that most little girls dream of their fairy tale representing the ones they watch and see in Disney movies and stories.

Which is another thing unto itself let's talk about that for a minute. The average Disney story is about a girl or princess who has some major problem or issue in their lives that they need to work through and the only way they can get through this problem is with the aid of the prince; they never seem to be able to work through their own problems on their own they always need the help from prince charming to solve them. What does that say to young girls? That they can not possible solve a problem or make it through life without the aid of a man. I know that they are just stories for the amusement of little ones, what when you start to think about the true meanings of these stories and look deeper into what is really going on it makes your think what are these films really representing?

But bask to the ever adapting fairy tale ending. You grow and change as a person so your fairy tale should grow and change with you and adapt to your needs and what you ultimately want and don't want. It is a great thing fairy tales it helps keep your dreams alive and helps to push forward when times are bad they are like a really great novel. They are apart of our dreams and how we are as girls and women. I even think that the fairy tales we had as little girls helped aid us in some of the decisions we made as we grew into women to put us in the right path of achieving our own true fairy tale ending.

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